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What's getting in the way of 

More good days?

Have you become so good at coping and saying that you're fine that you're not quite sure exactly how to make a change?

Sometimes it shows up as:

  • overthinking everything at 2am

  • feeling emotionally tired but calling it “just busy”

  • forgetting what you even enjoy

  • functioning perfectly while quietly feeling a bit flat

This short reflective quiz will help you understand what might currently be getting in the way of more good days, more joy, and feeling more like yourself again.

At the end, you’ll receive:
✨ your “more good days” type
✨ personalised reflections
✨ one small thing to try differently
✨ journaling prompts to help you reconnect with yourself a bit more

When someone asks how you are, you usually say:
A -“Fine” before you’ve even thought about it
B - “Tired, but it’s fine”
C - “Busy” because there’s too much to explain
D - “Honestly? I think I need a holiday and a break from everything”
Your brain at 2am tends to:
A - make lists of things you've forgotten
B - wonder when you last felt excited about life
C - replay conversations and worry about people
D - imagine running away to start your dream business
What drains you the most lately?
A - feeling responsible for everything
B - feeling flat and disconnected
C - emotional heaviness from other people
D - feeling stuck in routine and being on autopilot
Which sentence feels most like you?
A - “It’s easier if I just do it myself.”
B - “I don’t really know what I enjoy anymore.”
C - “I can feel everyone else’s stress.”
D - “There has to be more good days than this.”
Your version of self-care usually looks like:
A - cancelling plans and resting
B - scrolling your phone in silence
C - checking on everyone else first
D - buying yourself little treats
You feel most like yourself when:
A - nobody needs anything from you
B - you have space to think properly
C - you feel emotionally safe
D - you’re laughing, creating or doing something joyful
What do you secretly wish people would stop expecting from you?
A - being the reliable one
B - always knowing what you’re doing
C - being always emotionally available
D - being sensible all the time
When was the last time you did something purely for joy?
A - honestly can’t remember
B - recently, but it felt unfamiliar
C - only if someone else enjoyed it too
D - quite recently and I want more of it
Which thought shows up most often?
A - “I just need to get through this week.”
B - “Why do I feel so disconnected?”
C - “Everyone else seems to cope better than me.”
D - “I want life to feel lighter than this.”
What usually helps you feel even slightly better?
A - rest and quiet
B - space away from pressure
C - feeling understood
D - fun, creativity or spontaneity
Which description sounds most like your current life stage?
A - capable but exhausted
B - functioning but flat
C - caring but emotionally overloaded
D - craving more joy and aliveness
Right now, what do you need most?
A - permission to rest
B - permission for space to reconnect with yourself
C - permission to set emotional boundaries
D - permission for having more joyful days
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